My top five ‘ghosting’ experiences
“I’m very good at the past. It’s the present I can’t understand.” ― Nick Hornby, High Fidelity Today I’m going... Read More
Just don’t fuck it up
On a rainy and umbrella-turning typical London Monday evening, I went to see Cheryl Strayed at the Emmanuel centre, near Victoria. The... Read More
The adventure of a lifetime
Exactly three years ago, I met Alistair. I had been conducting The Love Project all year and I was frankly getting fed... Read More
Building a brave heart
It was the weekend and I had another argument with my husband. ‘We’re arguing every day, we need to sort this... Read More
The games we play
Almost three years ago, in the middle of The Love Project, I was having a conversation with a male friend over lunch.... Read More
The straw that broke the camel’s back
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You must wonder what it took to make me go through The Love Project. As with all big decisions, it takes something dramatic.... Read More
What you seek is seeking you
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It’s Sunday, I’ve had another long week at work, my muscles and my joints hurt everywhere, and I’m at the yoga class.... Read More
Embracing rejection
In one of the early chapters of The Love Project I had to reframe my relationship with rejection. When another guy I... Read More
Writer’s block
I don’t know about you, but ever since I’ve returned from the most magical 6-weeks holiday in Sri Lanka, I... Read More
The mother of all mothers
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I used to think I was an unlucky girl because my father was an abusive alcoholic whose behaviour inflicted serious trauma on both... Read More